You Didn't Just Lose Him.
You Lost Yourself Too.
This Book Helps You Find Her.

"In every dark corner of my grief, your book has put some light for me to REFLECT on my life with them, REWIRE my life without them, and RECREATE my life living with their memories. Grief is grief… I'm learning to exhale, and most days it's tough but God is my hope and strength. Thank you my sister."

"Darlene has been an invaluable source of support and guidance throughout my grief recovery journey following the loss of my wife to illness. With Darlene's help, I have been able to navigate the complex emotions of grief, find ways to honor my wife's memory, and ultimately move towards a place of acceptance and peace. Thank you Sis! I will forever be grateful for what you did for me."

"I don't even know where to begin. You have made such an impact on my life. Although I am a work in progress you haven't given up on me when so many times I wanted to. You have given me the tools to work through my loss, reminded me to give myself grace, love myself enough to put me first. I can't thank you enough."

"Her writing is so amazingly clear and honest. She writes from a woman's perspective, but virtually every sentence spoke to me personally. Her message of hope and possibility is for men as well as women and for survivors of any loss of a loved one. Darlene shares her own tragedy and loss with honesty and raw emotion. But this is not just a story of sadness. Through her clear, very readable prose she shows us that there is a possibility for real, deep healing — and that the loss of a loved one can move us into a life filled with purpose, meaning, and real joy."

"Completing unfinished business of grief with someone who knows how it works is self care of the highest order. After almost 2 years of spinning my wheels, I somehow found Darlene. What a difference working with her is making."

"From start to finish, Love Again was a truthfully honest look at what it looks like from a widow's perspective. The true story of how grief and hope can intertwine. It's truly a great read for any widow who wants to heal, and to love again 💗"

"She is very passionate about this work. She does such a great job at being a heart with ears and of course a grief specialist. She is very understanding and does her best to help me complete difficult relationships in my life."

"Once you start reading, it's very hard to stop. I love it from the first chapter to the end. It's a must-read. This is the journey of a beautiful woman who became a widow and found love again — not as a replacement, but an extension of her journey. An inspiration for other widows that they are worthy of love again."

"I have to say that I am just blown away by every section, every paragraph. I will undoubtedly be reading this several times. So much of what you describe has gradually been happening for me as time goes by — little by little finding purpose for my life that I previously felt was 'over.' As you said, 'willingness' is the first step."

"I thought I would simply support her and be there for her, but as I started reading, I truly felt her feelings, emotions, and thoughts. The book is written in a simple, heartfelt way to help others feel seen, supported, and reminded that they are not alone in their grief. Thank you, Darlene, for creating such a beautiful movement for widows who need it most."

"I read chapter 8 and I feel in many ways I crossed the Bridge a while ago. But when I got to chapter 9 Process Your Past, this really resonated with me. I like when you said, 'You can't outrun your past. But you can meet it with love. And when you do, freedom begins.' Such a beautiful book! What a gift it is Darlene, thank you, thank you! ❤️🌷"

"Reading this book felt like sitting beside someone who truly understands what it means to lose the person who defined your world. Darlene doesn't just write about grief — she writes about the quiet identity shift that happens after loss, the moments when you wonder who you are without them. Her stories created community and gave me hope. And her message about love after loss not being betrayal — that hit me deeply. This book gave me permission to live again."

"Love Again is an emotional and inspiring story about grief, healing, and finding hope after loss. It's about moving forward while still honoring the memories of a person deeply loved. Darlene shares with readers that love can continue to grow even after the biggest heartbreak of losing a husband. Reading Love Again was especially meaningful for me, a widow of almost 3 years, because I struggle with grief, loneliness, and the fear of moving forward. Love Again speaks of courage — the courage to embrace life after pain and to believe that new beginnings are very much possible."